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February 2021
Losing my Mother was the most significant event of my life. I didn't know how to prepare myself for the strange, new world it left in place of the world it took away. I just nodded a lot. I didn't know how else to respond to each moment and each challenge revealed. I can't begin to imagine what I would have done with any bit of the ' business ' involved with shutting down a persons entire life. It would seem almost profane to have to then consider crossing t’s and dotting I's. You need help. I did at least.
I had never heard of trust administration, or what a successor trustee is, or does. I now know they steer the ship. They step into the most sacred and terrifying moments, and they help. I am so grateful that Kim Valentine was there to help me and my family. I was setting sail on a foreign ocean that I did not know how to swim in, or where the life boats were.
All I knew was the voyage was long and waters rough. I'm still far from shore. Kim took care of all of the grown up responsibilities I was in no condition to engage.
My mother passed away days before our country went into lockdown. I lost the most important person in my life, and my job, and was told to go home and stay there, all in a matter of days. Thankfully there are individuals of such integrity and courage during such profound chaos. Thank you Kim for being my essential hero.
Patrick Morse